"Who pays for what?" the single question asked by most couples as they begin the planning of their wedding..The traditional answers are listed below, but many couples work out the best arrangement for both families and their resources.
1. Expect the groom (or the groom's family) to pay for the engagement and wedding rings for the bride, the rehearsal dinner, the marriage license, accessories for the groomsmen, the officiant's fees, the bride's bouquet, corsages for both mothers, boutonnieres for the groomsmen, and the honeymoon.
2. The value of the engagement ring should equal the total to be spent by the bride (or the bride's family) for all wedding costs they are responsible for.
3. If out of town groomsmen need a hotel; the bridegroom also pays this costs.
3. The bride (or the bride's family) to pay for the groom's wedding band, the bridal gown, invitations, photography, flowers, and bouquets for the attendants and flower girls. The bride's family also pays for transportation to the ceremony and reception for the entire bridal party, plus all costs associated with the reception.
4. If out of town bridal attendants require a hotel; the bride pays this cost.
5. Expect groomsmen and bridesmaids to pay for their tuxedos or dresses, plus any expenses they incur traveling to and from the wedding.
6. The bride and groom should each buy gifts for their attendants in appreciation of their help.
7. Be realistic about what you and the members of your wedding party can comfortably afford.
8. Make your wedding day both affordable and unforgettable. A bridesmaid's budget may not afford the $600 dress you thought was just perfect. Don't let extravagances strain friendships.
9. If you have chosen expensive attire beyond your attendants budget; the expense should be paid by the bride and bridegroom without making their attendants feel obligated.
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